Prepare for The Unplanned

There are just so many things in life that happen though unplanned. So many things which usually does not go your way even though you had it all planned out when you were thirteen. That with just a small set back in your plan, can leave you to completely change the route you once thought you would take. 

Unlike in fairy tale, or in films, where a plan always works out, it is unfortunate that it does not happen in reality. Even if majority of it has gone your way, but how much of it has carried out in as much detail as you had anticipated or hoped for? Weren’t there always changes? Wasn’t there always the times when you have to compromise with what was in front of you and then substitute what you didn’t have?

Then, there are times when the plan completely doesn’t go your way at all. Completely unexpected, completely different, and completely not what you had hoped for. Then, you try to be strong to carry out the plan you hadn’t even planned for, and try to do the best you can out of it. 

It is so weird, when though things are not going our way, that time can still past by so quickly. Day by day a new day arises, a new week turns a page, and then before we know it, a year has gone by. Yet the memory of what didn’t go our way sticks with us like photographs stuck to the walls of our brains, ever lasting images and memories, which we sooner or later forget how it even felt like at that very moment in time. And only images stay. 

At times, unplanned life changes, are life changing. It can completely set aside a life, which meant that you would have to steer off the path you are on now, just to suit the changes that have taken place, but it wasn’t even planned. By steering off too much in life, at times, we forget how and what it was that we wanted in the first place. Because there were so many changes, so many unplanned situations, that we lose track completely of what it was we were working for and toward. 

A big leap of faith has to be taken at times, to adapt to the changes that we go through in life. Changing from who we once were to who we have become. Changes take place ever so often, that if we stop to think about it, it can be pretty scary to realize how fast everything moves and circum to changes. 

But, no matter how much we try not to be scared, a part of us will always have that seed of fear, always have the changes at the back of our head, knowing, that nothing, nothing, ever goes to plan.